Building Foundations: Preparing the Next Generation
By: Rivkie Gottlieb, Lower School Judaic Studies Principal
This week we are blessed to read both parshiot of Nitzavim and Vayelech. In Parshat Nitzavim, which translates as “standing,” Moshe points out to Bnei Yisrael, amongst other things, that their (our) unity is their (our) strength. In Parshat Vayelech, which translates as “and he went,” we learn about Moshe's last day in the physical realm.
I have been reflecting on the seeming juxtaposition of the names of both parshiot and how they are grouped together and read at the same Torah reading. Standing and Going. Stationary and Movement. There has to be a connection between the two beyond their “opposition”.
Looking through the parenting/educator lens, I can understand Moshe moving on only after making sure his children were set up for success. He reminded them of the expectations for “his family,” urged them to stick together as one, warned them of the consequences, appointed the next leader, and then it was time to let go.
As parents and educators we give our children everything they need to be successful, happy, lifelong learners. When is it time to step back and allow the next generation to lead on? Moshe parented his people for 40 years, and while my children will always be my greatest loves, I hope that they will achieve what they need to long before they turn 40. To reach this stage, I will need to ensure that the foundations of Torah connection, education, and middot are strong before I let go and trust the growth they can achieve without me. I may hover for a while to ensure all is well, that they can get back up when they fall, and I will have to trust that I have done my best and that they can take it from here.
With this lens there is no longer a difference but a continuation of events.
Shabbat Shalom!